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Spiritual maturity is typically graded on a curve. If you're in a church and everybody is very immature and you're just a "little" immature don't you feel good about yourself? You say, "I'm ahead of those guys." The apostle Paul said, "those that compare themselves with themselves or others are foolish."

There's a danger in "grading on the curve".

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Church attendance doesn't thrill God. A transformed heart is what Thrills God!

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Many believers don't know where they are spiritually. Why?

New believers are not being spiritually mentored right at the beginning of their Christian life and they don't know what they are supposed to be doing.

If God has a purpose for every Christian why are so many living in the "Spiritual Desert"?

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God desires for me to grow in my understanding of Him and wants to transform my thinking so that I increasingly view life from His perspective.

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The character of God is extremely important because every person is going to look at God as either good, bad, or somewhere in between.

How you view God is going to impact how you view life.

This video addresses the importance of our focus to be on God.

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Why do we devote 18 years to raising our children, but don't even spend six months with a new Christian?

As a result our churches are filled with immature believers.


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A Biblical Model for “Discipleship”

Biblical Model for Discipleship


:3-6 … we speak, not as pleasing men, but God who examines our hearts. For we never came with flattering speech, as you know, nor with a pretext for greed — God is witness — nor did we seek glory from men, either from you or from others, even though as apostles of Christ we might have asserted our authority.

        :7-8 But we proved to be gentle among you, as a nursing MOTHER tenderly cares for her own children. Having so fond an affection for you, we were well-pleased to impart to you not only the gospel of God but also our own lives, because you had become very dear to us.
        :9-10 you recall, brethren, our labor and hardship, how working night and day so as not to be a burden to any of you, we proclaimed to you the gospel of God. You are witnesses, and so is God, how devoutly and uprightly and blamelessly we behaved toward you believers;
        :11-12 just as you know how we were exhorting and encouraging and imploring EACH ONE of you as a FATHER would his own children, so that you would walk in a manner worthy of the God who calls you into His own kingdom and glory.
        :13 For this reason we also constantly thank God that when you received the word of God which you heard from us, you accepted it not as the word of men, but for what it really is, the word of God, which also performs its work in you who believe.

(1 Thessalonians 2:3-13)

A Biblical Model For Discipleship - Description


The previous lesson, “Balanced Discipleship” (INTRO-2), is an overview of what should be the normal practice in churches. The diagram above, “A Biblical Model For Discipleship”, depicts how Balanced Discipleship should look in the typical believer’s spiritual life, including both Personal Discipleship (“Spiritual Parenting”) and Corporate Discipleship. The two are contrasted using a time line, and providing biblical support for Personal Discipleship.

01Corporate Discipleship
Most churches are well acquainted with and employ Corporate Discipleship (represented by the dotted line over the lifespan of the believer). However, many church leaders would acknowledge that something is still lacking in the spiritual growth of many believers.

02Personal Discipleship
We believe that “Personalized Discipleship” (“Spiritual Parenting”) is the missing ingredient for producing healthy spiritual growth. Each new believer has unique spiritual needs that should be addressed. Typically there is a window of opportunity for new believers, during which time they are open to biblical concepts, which can accelerate their growth toward spiritual maturity and fruitfulness. There is a parallel between the spiritual development of a believer and the development of a baby. In both cases, the initial period is a “formative” stage of their lives. We believe this is why God has chosen to use spiritual terminology that is paralleled in the human experience; such as “born again”, “baby”, etc. (see also Lesson 2-2). Too often believers are left to fend for themselves, with the assumption that simply being in the presence of biblical presentations and other believers will be sufficient. We believe many believers would have experienced much more spiritual growth had someone given them personal attention when they first accepted Christ as their Savior. New believers will often come to correct conclusions if biblical truths are clearly presented to them. New believers are usually hungry, and long for personal guidance, much like a new baby. The typical new believer is excited about having their sins forgiven and knowing that they're going to heaven. However, that enthusiasm should not be mistaken for spiritual understanding. New believers need to understand how to recognize the Holy Spirit’s involvement in their life, and how to listen to, follow and obey Him. They also need to understand how to cooperate with Him in their own spiritual development.

03Biblical Support for Personalized Discipleship (1 Thess. 2:3-13)
Paul presents a model for Personal Discipleship (see also Lesson 2-2), in which he clearly depicts himself as a “Spiritual Parent” (Spiritual Father and Mother), caring for spiritual children. We believe that Paul lays out a biblical perspective of how a Spiritual Parent should relate to each spiritual child, or disciple. The human parallel is intentional and unmistakable.


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